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P.A.U.S.E. Negotiations

Living at peace with others depends on our ability not to ignore but to resolve conflict with others. The acronym “P.A.U.S.E.” will help you to approach conflict resolution with intentionality and objectivity.

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Loving Confrontation

Confrontation does not have to be damaging to the relationship. The Bible instructs us to lovingly confront, when necessary. The worksheet will help you to work through knowing when it is necessary to confront another and how to do it in a way that serve each party and the relationships.

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Repairing a Communication Breakdown

It can happen in every relationship - a communication breakdown. Communication can be like a car; you’re cruising along (probably on Cruise Control) when suddenly, there is a breakdown. Repairing is necessary when things have broken down, and all your attempts to adjust and compromise have failed. Here are three tips for repairing a communication breakdown in your relationship.

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By ALL means, Don’t Isolate

One of the worst things we can do, when navigating challenging seasons, is choose to isolate ourselves. The reason we often make this mistake usually comes from seeking our “own desire.” Proverbs 18:1 says, “Whoever isolates himself seeks his desire; he breaks out against all sound judgment.” The context for isolation can involve ignorance of the need for community, hidden sin, or pride. Regardless, each of these results in a crippled spiritual life, since we are designed to live in a community with other believers who hold us accountable.

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